Women

 Hey there! 

I wish you a happy women's day all the women warriers.

I am writing this blog on the special day of Women's day. Now in this blog I will be talking and I wanted to share few of my thoughts about the women. 

I observed these things from my childhood many people, influencers are talking about Feminism. I have a grate doubt about Feminism what is Feminism really about? 

Let me tell you some scenarios 

1. While you are a child you are having a brother and your are from middle class family. Your parents have feasibility to give education in private school for one child only. So they decided to send your brother to private school and government school for you (girl child). What do you do? can you ask to your parents about this at very young age? 

2. You are joined in a school and you are performing well in studies. You think that you wanted to become an Actress or You wanted to enter in sports but your parents and relatives are becoming a barrier for you. What you do on that time? 

3. Every girls has some dreams but being a girl it is very difficult to achieve. Some dreams are seems to be easy and very difficult to achieve like Chemistry. Chemistry is very interesting and it is easy to understand but very difficult to achieve grip on it. Coming to the girls dreams they always wants freedom from everything but very few get it. Girls wants to walk on empty road on night time but it is very very difficult task. 

4. The word Feminism start hearing from school itself. It maybe from Teachers, Text books or Social Media etc... and they start understanding of Feminism and they feels they are also "Feminist". So they start dress like a boy, haircut like a boy, they argue with parents for everything, they start to post some photos, videos on social media to show their behavior is like this, I am independent like this posts we are watching on social media. But when a situation comes in reality they become innocent, they starts crying after happens the situation.

5. Even people starts telling to girls you should behave like this, don't talk with other boys, you should dress like this, you should laugh like this, you should marry on this point, you should give birth at this age all the stuff disturbs girls. So they cry for being a girl, blame themselves for being a girl. They starts fighting with them and with the society. 

There are many scenarios like this but nobody cares about those. 

Here I am asking you to examine yourself by asking the questions to yourself.

1. Are you really a Feminist? If yes ask yourself why you are a Feminist?

2. Are really confident by wearing a dress like a boy? If yes then ask yourself "can I face any anything that harms me"? 

3. Can I make any decision with my own?

4. Can I go wherever I want at any time?

5. Can I face anyone without fear?

6. Can I get success with my confidence?

7. Can I say NO to anything which is not good for me?

8. Can I do whatever I want in my life without anyone?

Here is my opinion as a girl. 

1. Women should wear whatever she wants which are comfortable to her. But she should should consider consider her body like a temple.

2. Women should learn saying "NO"  without any fear

3. Women should be confident but not over confident

4. Women should learn self - defense 

5. Women should be able to make her own decision 

6. She should be able to educate her children

Be like Gandhari who stands for herself 

Be like Rani Rudrama Devi

Be like Mani Karnika 

Be like Nirmala Seetha Raman 

Be like Sudha Murthy

Be like Priyanka Chopra 

There are many women to who came out of from their kitchens and homes stands for themselves. And I am asking this generation girls come out from the Tik Talk, Instagram and other social media platforms and prove yourself to you only. Show to the world what you can do. Do not blame all boys. Actually there are some boys are there who are really encourages you. They are making us strong mentally and physically by their words and actions. 

Be like a Warrior, do not give up on yourself.  Don't blame all boys its your mistake too if you give chance to them and being a nice person. If anything goes wrong you should become like a tigress. 

THIS WOMEM'S DAY MAY BECOME STEP TO REALISE WHAT YOU ARE?

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